Monday, December 31, 2012
Saturday, December 29, 2012
A girl of my age was gang raped in Delhi and the rapist ripped of her uterus and throw it away as it was just a plastic bag. He doesn't even thought that he too came from a woman who carried him in her womb for 9months.
A girl who dreamed about her future, about her career, about love, about family, her marriage and kids was brutally murdered.
How could a person be so beastly and cruel. Doesn't a pinch of humanity exist in these creatures?
Now the girl have given up her war and embraced death. Guess death was more concerned towards her.
When is this nation gonna get the ultimate freedom? When can woman get out without fearing to lose her modesty? When are woman gonna be treated as an equal human being rather than some sex giving machine? When is this nation gonna open her eyes against this insanity?
P.S. If you can't bring up a gentleman than don't make a son.
God blez that girl.
2012 is getting ready to say bye. This year went in the most fastest way. Days and month felt like flying away. Time wasn't enough to gasp everything that was happening.
Lost and gained much. Saw birth and death. Loved and hated some moments. Laughed and cried. Had togetherness and loneliness.
Met few awesome people in the beginning of this year and are still together with more bonding.
Lost a brother to death and got a new nephew.
Orgainsed an awesome program, which' m so damn proud of, with an equal frequency person.
Left my mother country to a foreign place seeking a job, and landed into my first job.
Learned that relations are something more fragile than glass which have to be nurtured and cared every moment.
Planted a seed of a future dream in mind and working towards that ultimate star.
But whatever happens time just moves on. Your past and yesterday moments becomes a memory and new things and new people come to your life, even if you don't want them to.
2012, farewell to you. And 2013, Welcome.
Happy New Year to the World! :)
Keep Rocking n Party Hard.
Friday, December 14, 2012
This world is soo beautiful. And the lil angels called children play an important role in making this place wonderful. It's said that any cold hearted person will melt seeing a child. Then why there's lakhs of kids especially in India, who's suffering from various traumas and still feels helpless.
A lil boy of 4 years. When smiles should have reached his face, his eyes are teary. There in his small round glassy eyes you could read out fear. The fear of uncertainty. The uncertainty of his tomorrows. You could dive into the depth of sadness in his eyes. He was even scared to smile. Scared to utter a word. It was like he was holding his life in his hands and a smile or a distraction would take it away.
Another baby girl of less than two years. A beautiful chubby girl. But her face was swollen and her eyes full of tears. Her father was trying to calm her down. But in vain.
The age when these kids are supposed to run around and play or getting ready for the first days of school, they are here surrounded by pain, sorrows and fear and even the smell of death. The time when their eyes should be filled with innocent curiosity and happiness, they are searching for some relief. The moment when they are supposed to be restless, they are forced to be in bed for their survival. When they should be trying out every tastes they carve for, they are restricted to just health and hygiene foods.
This is just a scene from a floor in the Regional Cancer Center, Trivandrum.
Time stops here and the struggle for life begins.
P.S. Life is too short.
Tuesday, December 11, 2012
Sex abuse! Something so prevailing now a days in the country. The new generation or somewhat even the present one is also just concerned about intervening of bodies. Just for the sheer eleven minutes pleasure as described by Paulo Coelho.
Last day a friend shared an incident which happened in Trivandrum city. A teenage boy of 15 years old wants to have sex with his mom. And his justification is that she is a woman, and she being his mother is not his fault. So if he felt a desire towards her it's not his fault, but quite understandable. And what he did to satisfy his urge is so damn shocking. He gave sleeping pills to his own mom and fulfilled his sinful desire. And now she have a new life in her womb from her own son. The agony and the state of mind that mother would have felt or would have to go through till her last breath is beyond any words.
Another teenage guy fall in love with his own sister and he wants to marry her. They coming from the same womb and father is not a concern for him. She's a girl and she obviously will marry someone someday then why not him. He doesn't know the word sister have a meaning beyond her feminine looks.
Mother, sister and all are woman. But they are a part of one's life that cannot be replaced or destroyed just coz u felt some desire towards them coz of their sex.
It's always believed two woman guys usually would give their life is their mom n sister. Both of them who had been with him for everything. Their tears is equal to his heartbeat. But now the very same son or brother is destroying their life.
I wonder, how am I or the 20s, the future parents gonna give birth to their lil ones, knowing that they are gonna let their babies into a society that doesn't even understand the meaning of MOTHER?
P.S. God do help our future generation!
Sunday, December 9, 2012
I am in Trivandrum from last week. And time surely flies. It doesn't feel as if I just came back after a period.
The happiness and satisfaction you get when you are together with your near ones is so powerful. We land among certain people for a short time or for lifetime, maybe for some reason or maybe just for ours and their smiles.
But whatever the reason is, this season with them are beautiful. Just loving the smiles I see in their faces and mine too.
P.S. Awesome people makes your life awesome.
Friday, November 30, 2012
My place is always my own. Here 'm a stranger, a tourist in an unknown land, who came to seek the gold pot at the end of the rainbow. But till now not even the rainbow has come out of its hiding place.
I was a person who cheered for Pakistan in cricket and who prayed India to lose her crown in Miss World (but i was just 6 years, so guess it can be forgiven).
But now after living with her for more than half of my life i began to respect her, take pride in been her daughter, to have a space in her land and to be known to others as hers.
When compared to this strange land she may not have the perfect silky roads. But i can go where ever i want or walk till my feet ache and without fearing any sun stroke.
She may not have sophisticated malls and hangouts. But the street chaats and exhibition grounds reveal part of her soul, culture and lot of memories.
She may not have a 10 on 10 ruling authority but everyone enjoys the power. She doesn't show partiality in religions. For her every religion is the same and everyone is her child.
She doesn't believe in monopoly. A different telecom company is born every day offering the least call rates or even zero rates for their existence. But due to which I can actually talk to my people without checking my credit thrice in five minutes.
Her shopping outlets may not be air conditioned but they won’t burn a hole in your pockets.
She may not provide a stable electric power 24x7, but always opens the door to the freshness of nature.
The rain at her place may ruin your plans but keeps you cool during your grumpiest hour and will be your companion in solitude.
The beaches may not be seen with white sand, palm trees and calm, clear, blue water but it comforts and soothes your soul.
After dark it may not be safe to roam about in her land, but the courage and feeling of independence she provides is immense.
The street eat-outs won't be providing you with international cuisines but will serve you with a genuine smile.
The people in her land even thou a bit narrow minded, value family and relations above their job, status or worldly pleasures.
It’s said, ‘You don't realize the value of something unless u lose it.' Here i didn't lose anything, rather i gained knowledge of the love and passion i have for my place. The land which provided space for every mood swings of mine.
My country is not perfect, but she is mine and she makes me feel at home.
Whenever i came back to you in the past, you welcomed me warm heartedly and the nectar from the skies embraced me.
I miss u.
I just miss being with you.
P.S. Keep Smiling.
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Countable days more to go......
Sunday, November 25, 2012
Yesterday evening after work, rushed off to home, after an hour or something again rushed out to one of the best looking malls. Me and along with S (my childhood friend and henceforth) was off to meet our friend Ash’s fiancée.
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Monday, November 19, 2012
“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. A soul mate’s purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so out of control that you have to transform your life.” - Elizabeth Gilbert
P.S. Keep Smiling.
Sunday, November 18, 2012
However, if you do manage to blend with her at the mental, spiritual as well as physical level, you will be introduced to a woman full of passion. In her youth, she is least likely to be bounded by a relationship or commitment. She may love your most irritating habits one minute and be extremely sarcastic about your new stylish haircut the very next. Maturity may bring a little bit stability in her. All this doesn't mean that Gemini women are not romantic at all. Infact, for them, romance is the one of the easiest means of communication.
Since they always have some thoughts to express, romance never goes out of their life. However, commitment is an entirely different term. A Gemini girl may love your intelligence, but she will also notice your lack of interest in creative arts. It is same the other way round too. Puzzled? You should be, at times, even she is baffled by her own complex nature. She is so vivacious and full of life that with her, you will forget even the deepest of troubles. She has the ability to light up the most somber of surroundings with her presence.
A Gemini woman will be full of the small, sentimental gestures that keep alive the romance in a relationship. She will always find new ways of telling you how much she loves you and will shower you with her alluring charm. She may act like a typical woman at one point of time, be a nervous wreck the other minute and engage in an intelligent conversation the very next second. She has the feminine charms, but she will never be clinging on to you. One thing that you will never find in a Gemini woman's characteristics profile is monotony and boredom.
She finds something good in all the men she meets and then, wants a man who has all of those qualities. However, this can't be and then, she keeps longing for that perfect man! She can be your best friend, your sports partner, your racing competitor and your lover, all at the same time. Just remember one thing, she is single-handedly giving you all this, so don't expect consistency from her. A Gemini female can look at other guys, even when she is sincerely in love with you. Change is in her nature and she has to learn to control her own behavior. Just make sure to keep her interested in you and she will remain totally devoted. She is prone to keeping men on a string, not completely heartlessly, she is evaluating if the man is worth her attention and her time. Once you have her approval, she can easily become jealous. The reason for her jealousy is that if she is going to open up to a man, when she rarely completely opens up to anyone, she does not want to risk her being deceived or hurt.
Gemini woman makes an excellent hostess and will charm the guests with her grace. They will be treated to the best of cuisine, that too in silver cutlery. She can easily get along with anyone, right from your boss to the peon of your office. With a Gemini wife, you will feel as if you are with a different woman every other day. When she wants to speak, she will speak and when she wants to fly, she will fly. You don't know how she flies; just listen to her imagination and you will know. She is full of hopes, desires and dreams and you are welcome to share them. Just make sure that you are with her when she needs you
P.S. Proud and happy to be one.
God Blez all Adamant Geminians.
Saturday, November 17, 2012
You expect too much from me” someone says,
I hear this too often nowadays!!
I sit here today and wonder
What’s going wrong in my life,
It’s suddenly filled with splits and darkness rife?
I sit here and ponder today,
What made them say such words of dismay,
For they are people who always make my day?
I ask the almighty, what went wrong today,
When everything was fine till day before yesterday?
Did I change in these couple of days,
Or did something else change in many ways?
Why are there barriers between me and them today,
Why am I not able to cross then fence, go and play?
What is it that’s stopping me today, Why is it that I am so sad today?
Relationships have limits I know,
But what are the limits I really don’t know,
Friends walk together with you they say,
But what if someone keeps you at bay?
I fear today to talk to them,
I fear today to walk with them,
Barriers unknown surround me today,
Wish I could break everything and run away.
The dawn is not far away now, I tell myself,
Coz the sky is so dark, darker than black itself,
Tomorrow will be a better day,
For You will be able to break the fence and dance and play.
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
P.S. Life is good when we have lovable people around.